"Getting married is probably the biggest thing you will ever do in your life. You will meet someone you love and want to spend the rest of your life with them. The two of you really become one in many ways. You will share all of your belongings, your income, your emotions, your joys, your fears and your dreams and become one person. Not physically, but you really do both start picking up characteristics of the other person and acting as one.
The center of a good marriage is love and respect for one and other. There will be a lot of joy and fun times you will share together, but there will also be times of sorrow and hardship for you to share as well. The important thing is to be understanding of each other, listen to each other, and try to make each other happy. Be there for each other. You can still do things independently and have your own interests, but it is also good to share common interests and activities.
When you meet someone you love, even though you will want to live with them and move in with them, I highly recommend you wait to do that until after you are married - we did. If you move in with someone before you are married, getting married will not be as big an event, because you are already living together.
Be patient about finding your right partner for marriage. You will likely fall in love many times before finding the right person to marry. That person should not only be someone you love, but someone you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with. Someone who is a friend and partner. Someone who makes you laugh and makes you happy. Someone you can share your deepest thoughts with. Someone who will listen. Someone who will care. "
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